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Kip Coburn

Raymond W. Coburn

May 19th, 1939October 25th, 2026Wood Bull Antiques, Milford NY
Kip Coburn
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    Kip was a beautiful force. He lived 88 remarkable years through wildly disparate eras, with an extraordinary consistency of self. Born in 1939, shaped by the Depression, the war, and the 1950s, Kip reinvented himself time and again, with curiosity and presence. From Weston quarterback to RISD art student, from Beat Cat to Aspen ski Patrol; from hopping trains across Keroack's "America" to Soscalito houseboat-society, from meditating in Fez to organizing happenings in 1970s SoHo. From NYC loft-life with his "judy-girl", to realizing the dreams of the back-to-nature movement in his beloved “Shangri-La” on Christian Hill, to the realities of parenthood and the building of a business. From beautiful son to irreverent artist, loyal husband to passionate businessman, present father to proud grandfather, and finally, to a quiet and peaceful death. What an incredible time to be on this earth and to have made so much of it... the sum of his life experiences blending into one emmersive canvass that has been Woodbull. The milestones of Kip's life can be traced in his timeline, but the extraordinary way he moved through the world cannot be captured in dates and facts. His lifelong commitment to self-exploration, his appetite for the unfamiliar, his dry sense of humor, his eye for beauty, and his deep curiosity about what lay beyond the known were part of everything. We have never known anyone else who so naturally embodied his own personal code while living so completely free of the shackles of convention and societal expectation. He both loved us deeply and followed his own life's course with absolute constancy. Kip and Judy had a love affair for the ages. We were privaliged to see the world through his lense and to get to see him engage with it- as a master craftsman who's medium was life. From Kip, we inherit our love of travel, our hunger for the untasted, our drive to know ourselves through the perspective and relativity that only wandering can bring. We inherit his genuine openness to the “other,” his fearless curiosity for the unknown, and his instinct to find beauty where others might not look. From Kip, we get our values and our motivations. He is still our magnetic north. Kip died peacefully at home held by Judy and his family. We had days of comfort, music and love. We filled the room with stories, watched old slideshows, listened to beat poetry, and heard his granddaughter sing him folk songs. We imagined him as a bodyless form of his own energy, being rejoined with that of his son Zeven, the loved ones he missed, and his old horse hoot. ...And we imagined him in the sunshine on his beloved rooftop in Tangier, listening to the call to prayer, looking out over the alleys of the Soco Chico, with an idea for a new painting in his mind. Please share your memories of Kip here. We will gather them over the winter, and in the spring, we will come together at Wood Bull for a memorial and celebration of his extraordinary life.

    Kip was a beautiful force. He lived 88 remarkable years through wildly disparate eras, with an extraordinary consistency of self. Born in 1939, shaped by the Depression, the war, and the 1950s, Kip reinvented himself time and again, with curiosity and presence. From Weston quarterback to RISD art student, from Beat Cat to Aspen ski Patrol; from hopping trains across Keroack's "America" to Soscalito houseboat-society, from meditating in Fez to organizing happenings in 1970s SoHo. From NYC loft-life with his "judy-girl", to realizing the dreams of the back-to-nature movement in his beloved “Shangri-La” on Christian Hill, to the realities of parenthood and the building of a business. From beautiful son to irreverent artist, loyal husband to passionate businessman, present father to proud grandfather, and finally, to a quiet and peaceful death. What an incredible time to be on this earth and to have made so much of it... the sum of his life experiences blending into one emmersive canvass that has been Woodbull. The milestones of Kip's life can be traced in his timeline, but the extraordinary way he moved through the world cannot be captured in dates and facts. His lifelong commitment to self-exploration, his appetite for the unfamiliar, his dry sense of humor, his eye for beauty, and his deep curiosity about what lay beyond the known were part of everything. We have never known anyone else who so naturally embodied his own personal code while living so completely free of the shackles of convention and societal expectation. He both loved us deeply and followed his own life's course with absolute constancy. Kip and Judy had a love affair for the ages. We were privaliged to see the world through his lense and to get to see him engage with it- as a master craftsman who's medium was life. From Kip, we inherit our love of travel, our hunger for the untasted, our drive to know ourselves through the perspective and relativity that only wandering can bring. We inherit his genuine openness to the “other,” his fearless curiosity for the unknown, and his instinct to find beauty where others might not look. From Kip, we get our values and our motivations. He is still our magnetic north. Kip died peacefully at home held by Judy and his family. We had days of comfort, music and love. We filled the room with stories, watched old slideshows, listened to beat poetry, and heard his granddaughter sing him folk songs. We imagined him as a bodyless form of his own energy, being rejoined with that of his son Zeven, the loved ones he missed, and his old horse hoot. ...And we imagined him in the sunshine on his beloved rooftop in Tangier, listening to the call to prayer, looking out over the alleys of the Soco Chico, with an idea for a new painting in his mind. Please share your memories of Kip here. We will gather them over the winter, and in the spring, we will come together at Wood Bull for a memorial and celebration of his extraordinary life.

    “What is that feeling when you're driving away from people and they recede on the plain till you see their specks dispersing? - it's the too-huge world vaulting us, and it's good-bye. But we lean forward to the next crazy venture beneath the skies.”

    ― Jack Kerouac, On the Road

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    I carry your heart with me(i carry it in

    my heart)i am never without it(anywhere

    i go you go,my dear;and whatever is done

    by only me is your doing,my darling)

                                                          i fear

    no fate(for you are my fate,my sweet)i want

    no world(for beautiful you are my world,my true)

    and it’s you are whatever a moon has always meant

    and whatever a sun will always sing is you

    here is the deepest secret nobody knows

    (here is the root of the root and the bud of the bud

    and the sky of the sky of a tree called life;which grows

    higher than soul can hope or mind can hide)

    and this is the wonder that's keeping the stars apart

    i carry your heart(i carry it in my heart).

    By E. E. Cummings

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    • Raymond W Coburn Sr.

      Father

      Marion Wetherbee Coburn

      Mother

      • Barbara Coburn

        Sister

      • Edward Coburn

        Brother

      • Helen Coburn

        Sister

      • Frank Coburn

        Brother

      • Kip Coburn

        Raymond W. Coburn

        Judith Gardner Coburn

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        • Kyla Gardner Coburn

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          Andrew Archer Trench

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          • Alya Archer

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          • Seven Will Archer

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          • Nova Archer

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          • Truth Archer

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          • Skye Archer

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        • Zevin Coburn

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        • Tyson Gardner Coburn

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    Raymond W Coburn Sr.

    Father

    Marion Wetherbee Coburn

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    Kip & family

    Barbara Coburn

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    Edward Coburn

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    Helen Coburn

    Sister

    Frank Coburn

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    Raymond W. Coburn

    Judith Gardner Coburn

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    Tyson Gardner Coburn

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    "A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and gets to bed at night, and in between he does what he wants to do."

    - Bob Dylan

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    “It is always morning, the caravan is always departing. All we can do is share the Prophet's prayer - "O Lord increase our amazement" - and set forth into the Bewilderness.” ― Peter Lamborn Wilson, Sacred Drift

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